For the person going through it
Find the whole path in one place, from the first finding to follow-up.
On 20 October 2026 I had my 16th and last chemotherapy, which closed the first phase of my treatment. The journey is far from over, and I am sharing it as I go: my story, and everything I wish I had found in one place, for the person going through it and for the people around them. Happy Pinktober.
As 2025 ended and 2026 began, I had my plans. Then came a plan I never asked for, and God had been waiting to reveal it. It took me time to understand it. When I did, my own plans went on the back burner, and my whole focus turned to this fight.
Phase one complete. The journey continues.
On 9 April my Hausarzt, my family doctor, examined me. I had no symptoms, only a small lump that had been there for a few months. But over a short period of time it had become aggressively large.
I still remember her look, and the rush. The way she asked reception to put an urgent sticker on my referral. That was the first moment I felt this might not go well.
In Germany we say it takes ages to get a doctor’s appointment, and I agree, it often does. But when there is real urgency, they take it very seriously and make things happen.
The cancer was growing at a fast pace. But on the other side, the doctors worked at a pace I can truly recommend. Within one month I had my diagnosis (aggressive breast cancer, stage 3) and my treatment schedule in my hands. That is the positive side of our healthcare, and I want to share it.
My whole world was turned upside down. All that month I had one doctor’s appointment or another, every single day. My thoughts were mixed and overwhelming: the news, the daily visits, the fear of what would happen next.
When I asked one of my doctors what to expect, the answer was:
Imagine the worst of the worst.One of my doctors
It sounds terrible, but believe me, it worked. It helped me prepare mentally and physically, and to know who I was going to fight. That is what worked for me. Everyone is different.
It is a long journey, but I am happy to have cleared the first hurdle. On 20 October 2026 I had my 16th and last chemotherapy, which closed the first phase of my treatment. The journey continues, and I am taking it one step at a time.